I think anyone who has spent a few days in my company has a fairly good idea of what kind of person I am. So when I say that I cannot deal with certain qualities in my partner, I friggin' MEAN it!
I told J the first day we met that I would never consider a relationship with a smoker and heavy drinker. I guess he thought I wasn't serious, because he swore blind that he would stop and never did.
I also will not consider being in a relationship with someone who already is involved with someone else. Apparently, J was in the process of thinking of a solution to the issue. As far as I can see? That just means sitting pretty with two girls on either side.
Lastly (in J's case), I will not consider being in a relationship with anyone who doesn't operate with integrity. I don't really want to elaborate on this one, because I guess it is pretty self-explanatory.
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That sounds like closure. And closure is never a bad thing, I think.
You know the idiotic part? A small section of me really wants it all to fall into place even now. Even though I know he isn't right for me, and for him to be right for me, it would need a unspeakably huge personality overhaul for him (which is unfair to ask of anyone).
The mind is an awful creature. :-(
thats but natural, right? when you share a connection with someone, no amount of logic staring you in the face can make that small part of you believe otherwise. so im sure the nagging thoughts will linger..the what ifs and the why nots.. but i think everytime life throws a googlee of this sort i think its to make us rethink something we were :)
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